“Your self worth is determined by you. You don’t have to depend on someone telling you who you are.” (I’m pretty sure Beyonce said that. And she is the queen of confidence.)

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Easy Love

I have stumbled across a few posts in a few different places lately, all with a similar theme – easy love isn’t real love. I let it go after the first but after the third, I couldn’t stop thinking about it and I disagree.

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I was out at a cafe a little over a year and a half ago, and a lady stopped out of the blue to tell me that she thought I had a beautiful smile. I remember it like it was yesterday.

That morning, I had been reluctant to leave the house.

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Everyone behaves based on their life experiences up until that point, what they’ve been taught, what they’ve been through, what they know and something happens when you make the effort to see things from other people’s perspective.

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Blogs and Whys and Niches.

Here I was starting out and I was already doing it wrong! I didn’t have a niche – I wasn’t writing about fashion, or the latest bachelor, I didn’t have expert advice on how to anything. I read those blogs – I follow hundreds, and I love them so much, but what I had written was my story, my life, my feelings, my experiences.

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THAT Girl.

You know the one.

The girl with the hair that’s just a little bit shinier, the legs that are just a little bit more shapely, or the one with her life just that little bit more in order, her house just a little bit more fancy, or her career just that little bit further along and you kind of hate her.

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